Breaking Free of the 'American Dream' to Define Your Own Success

A decade ago, I “had it all” (according to some).⁣

I had graduated from Bastyr with a Doctorate in Naturopathic Medicine and a Master’s in Acupuncture & Oriental Medicine.⁣ I was married, made 6-figures, and had full brick-and-mortar practice with over 200 patients.

I checked all the boxes off on the American Dream Checklist.⁣ And guess what?⁣ I was freakin’ miserable.

Although I had taken a more unconventional route than anyone in my family by pursuing “alternative” medicine as a career, I overcompensated by overachieving and overextending myself in my quest for belonging.

My high-achiever energy was poured into creating a life that I thought would make others proud of me.

It was poured into patients who didn’t value my expertise and who weren’t aligned and therefore, weren’t getting consistent results.⁣ It was poured into working long hours, feeling depleted, and not having any time for play or pleasure.⁣⠀
It wasn’t until I got divorced in my early 30’s that I realized the idea of success I had been sold was nothing like what I actually desired.⁣
Entrepreneur Jim Rohn said: “If you don't design your own life plan, chances are you'll fall into someone else's plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much.”⁣

I find that this is one of the places many health practitioners get stuck.⁣ They find it difficult to break out of the status quo expectations of:⁣

  • what a practice should look like⁣
  • how they should be showing up in the online space⁣
  • how they should be interacting with clients⁣
  • the type of lifestyle they should be living⁣

There’s this common thread of consciousness among healers that revolves around this idea that to be of service and create an impact in the world we need to be living a life of servitude. ⁣Newsflash: we don’t.⁣⠀
We need to be completely taken care of ourselves before we can have the capacity to give from overflow instead of sustenance.⁣
In the WELLth Mentorship, we throw all the “shoulds” out the window and get clear on what the ideal practice and lifestyle look like for you.⁣

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